A YEAR OF HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
You already know what you should do.
This is the year you actually can.
52 weekly emails.
Grounded in doctoral research and 25 years of practice.
The slow, steady work that reaches the place
where quick fixes never do.
You've read the books. You understand yourself.
And you're still doing it.
The automatic yes before you've even checked
whether you have the capacity.
The text you draft three times and
then soften until it says nothing.
The slow, familiar erosion of your own needs in favor of everyone else's — not because you don't know better, but because knowing better has never been the problem.
“Your sister calls with another crisis. You had plans tonight — plans that matter to you. You already know you’re going to cancel them. You can feel yourself doing it before you’ve even opened your mouth.”
This is not a willpower problem. It's not a knowledge gap. It's something deeper — a pattern woven into the way you've learned to be a person in the world. And that's exactly what this year addresses.
Not with scripts. Not with tactics. Not with a weekend's worth of motivation that fades by Wednesday. With 52 weeks of something quieter and more honest; writing that meets you where you actually are and helps you build a different relationship with yourself,
one week at a time.
A Year of Healthy Boundaries
Once. Yours forever. Less than $2 a week.
Welcome email arrives within minutes.
“For help on boundaries,
Randi Buckley really is The Best!”
Denise Duffield-Thomas
This is for you if:
You are the person everyone counts on… and you are quietly exhausted by it
You know what you should do and still can't seem to do it; not because you lack information, but because something deeper keeps overriding what you know
You've tried other approaches and found them too simplistic, too aggressive, or too focused on scripts and tactics rather than the real thing underneath
You don't want someone to tell you to "just say no" — you want to understand why you can't, and to change that
You are not looking for a quick fix . You are looking for something that actually reaches it
“You said yes to chairing the committee again. On the drive home you thought, ‘Why do I keep doing this?’
You know the answer. You just haven't had the support to do anything different.”
What arrives in your inbox
Every week for a year, a single email. Not a lesson to complete. Not a portal to log into. Not homework. Just a thoughtfully crafted piece of writing — grounded in 25 years of practice and doctoral research — that meets you exactly where you are.
Some weeks, a reframe
Something you've believed for decades — about what it means to be kind, to be reliable, to be good — quietly turned on its side. Not to shame you. To free you.
Some weeks, a naming
Words for something you've felt but never been able to articulate. The relief of reading a sentence and thinking: that's exactly it.
Some weeks, a reminder
That your needs belong in the room too. That you are allowed to take up space. That the discomfort you feel when you protect yourself is not proof that you're doing it wrong.
Every week, a shift
Each email builds on the last. By the end of the year you won't just understand boundaries differently. You will have lived your way into a different relationship with yourself.
How it works
Simple. No portals. No passwords. No overwhelm.
1
Enroll
One payment of $100.
Welcome email arrives within minutes.
2
Receive
52 weekly emails, delivered to
your inbox on the same day
each week.
3
Keep
They're yours forever. A personal library you return to when you need it.
Testimonials
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“Working with Randi has been transformational. This boundaries work is one of the best things I have ever done for myself.” - Claire Mahon
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"Randi has given me the courage I need to say no. I'd struggled with boundaries all of my life. But after working with Randi I have learned to set and enforce them. I’m forever grateful for her wise guidance. - Theresa Reed
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"Working with Randi and learning from her has been life-changing. No hyperbole here – and completely shifted my mind frame (and behaviors) regarding boundaries. - Lilia Graue, MD
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“Randi allowed me a gentle, safe space to grapple with a question that I didn't even know I could ask.” - Candice Cole
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“For help on boundaries, Randi Buckley really is the best.” — Denise Duffield-Thomas
Even if…
"I've tried boundaries work before and it didn't stick."
Most boundaries approaches give you tactics — scripts for saying no, formulas for difficult conversations. Those wear off because they don't reach the part of you that keeps overriding them. This is the deeper layer. It's not about what to say. It's about who you're becoming when you say it.
"I don't have time for another program."
This isn't a program. It's one email a week. No modules, no portal, no homework. Read it over coffee (though I prefer tea). Let it sit with you. That's it. The work happens in how you live the rest of your week.
"I'm not sure $100 is worth it for emails."
These aren't newsletters. They're 52 pieces of original writing drawn from doctoral research and 25 years of coaching over a thousand people through this exact work. They're the most accessible version of what people pay thousands for in Randi's live programs. And you keep them forever.
"I already understand my patterns. Understanding isn't my problem."
Exactly. This is for the person who already understands — and is still stuck. Understanding is where most approaches stop. This is what comes after.
A Year of Healthy Boundaries
Once. Yours forever. Less than $2 a week.
Welcome email arrives within minutes.
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YOUR GUIDE
Randi Buckley
I am a doctoral researcher and coach with 20 years of experience working with highly capable people who are exhausted by their own competence — who know better and still can't stop.
My approach is not about tactics. It is not about scripts for saying no. It is about the deeper work of understanding why you disappeared and how you come back — fully, permanently, as yourself.
I have worked with over 1,000 people through this framework. It has been featured in The Guardian, NPR, and Ben & Jerry’s, among others. And it became my doctoral research because I came to understand it was far more significant than a boundaries course. It is the work of becoming a person who knows they matter.
A Year of Healthy Boundaries is the most accessible door into that work.
All sales are final due to the digital nature of this product. Results vary based on your engagement and circumstances — I respect you too much to promise otherwise. Full terms are here.
Questions? Contact us.
A Year of Healthy Boundaries
Once. Yours forever. Less than $2 a week.
Welcome email arrives within minutes.
You've been the person everyone counts on for a very long time.
This year, count yourself in.
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