Coming November 2024

Ready to establish effective boundaries that FEEL GOOD?

If you're feeling drained, overwhelmed, or undervalued, you've come to the right place.

Traditional boundary-setting advice often falls short because it:

Feels inauthentic, like it can’t work for you… or just gross
Conflicts with your values like kindness, service, or avoiding conflict
Overlooks your unique experiences or is void of context, nuance, and discernment

You need a personalized approach that:

Strengthens both your personal and professional life
Aligns with your values
Feels like an extension of your identity

Discover an effective and respect-infused boundary framework… tailored to you.

We “do” boundaries differently,
which is both a revolution and revelation. You can, too!

“For help on boundaries,
Randi Buckley really is the best.”

— Denise Duffield-Thomas

Welcome to the Next Iteration of Boundaries Work!

POTENT * PARED-DOWN * PERSONALIZED

A comprehensive, self-paced curriculum to understand and navigate YOUR boundaries for life.

Taking the most potent teachings from decade of my past course, Healthy Boundaries for Kind People, and wisdom from three decades of coaching boundaries, I am crafting an experience to help you:

understand your unique boundary challenges,
how to navigate them,
and create boundaries that foster the connection and relationships you want, personally and professionally.

In 9 modules you'll learn to navigate, if not avoid the pitfalls and challenges of new boundaries.

The program unfolds in ways unique to you to meet your needs.

We expect to do this through: videos, workbook, audio (with transcripts), and more.

While self-paced, I (Randi) will be your guide!

These are skills you can use immediately and I'll teach you how to adapt them for life.

YOU’LL

LEARN

TO…

Redefine Your Relationship with Boundaries

Discover a transformative framework that aligns with your values and revolutionizes how you think about personal limits.

Uncover Your Unique Boundary Needs

Gain profound, personalized insights into your specific boundary requirements through our innovative assessment process.

Master Randi's Groundbreaking Methodology

Learn how to determine, set, and enforce boundaries that truly resonate with your deepest values.

Heal the Root Causes of Boundary Struggles

Dive deep into the underlying issues that have held you back and experience true transformation. You’ll also learn the Logical Fallacies of Conventional Boundaries. We have a module just on People-Pleasing, alone.

Communicate with Confidence and Respect

Develop the skills to articulate your boundaries clearly and effectively in any situation.

Protect Your Well-being

Learn powerful strategies to address and prevent boundary violations, ensuring your peace of mind, and how to navigate PUSHBACK of your boundaries.

Transform Your Relationships

Apply your new boundary-setting skills to create healthier, more fulfilling personal and professional connections.

Create Lasting Change

Integrate these life-changing boundary practices into every aspect of your life for long-term success and satisfaction.

From Insight to Action: Your Roadmap to Freedom

Get practical, actionable strategies that turn your newfound awareness into real-world results.

Lifetime of Skills to Navigate Boundaries

Develop a sustainable plan for maintaining strong, healthy boundaries that evolve with you throughout your life journey.

Heal/Thy Boundaries

Forget everything you thought you knew about setting boundaries. Heal/Thy Boundaries® isn't just another course—it's a transformative, customizable experience that will change how you see yourself and interact with the world.

“Randi and HBfKP® have changed the trajectory of my entire life. I’ve gone from feeling withdrawn and avoidant to being confident in my ability to navigate personal, social and business situations with genuine grace and kindness.”

— ELLA R.

YAY! It might be one of your best decisions EVER.

Claire thought so…

“Taking this program (Healthy Boundaries for Kind People) and working with Randi has been hands-down one of the best decisions of my life.”

— Claire Mahon, Human Rights Attorney, Geneva

$400 Payment Plan Available

This boundary thing, well Randi Buckley understands the heart & soul of it. And I mean, turning inside to the essence & heart of boundary-making. I'm still slowly metabolizing her class I took last year, and I am so slow at growing the ability to do this boundary thing--because my boundaries were so smashed by a borderline parent, borderline systems of racism, patriarchy, etc. that I could not find my ass from my elbow in boundary-making. For some people, boundary-making is fairly straight forward & not challenging for them. For some of us- it is confusing and painful work using all kinds of toxic subs because we don't get it. Randi's class is unlike anything you would think it would be. Kind of like the diff between commercial farming and organic biodynamic gardening. A wild analogy but, meaning that it is more of an organic safe/brave process...not a prefab gimmicky fix, but digging down into the roots of it.
~ Margot Stebbing

Heal/Thy Boundaries

Student OUTCOMES

Learn how to navigate boundaries for a lifetime of healthy relationships

Some of the things our students have said after leaning and applying this work:

Decided whether to get divorced (or not)
Stepped out of empirical family dynasty to establish life on their terms.
A tenured professor and department chair was able to navigate the needs of their department while getting out from under the pull of university politics to make good choices for themselves and their colleagues.
Reconnected with their longest friendship, the last link to their past, even in the face of profound political and religious differences
A freelance writer quadrupled their income after boundaries around contracts, payments, and scope of service.
Renegotiated their contract with a movie studio.
Mother-in-law stopped unexpected visits and assuming everyone would follow her vacation dictation (plans)
Able to start dating “healthy” individuals after a lifetime of unhealthy and/or abusive relationships.
A caregiver that found themselves again while finding new ways to navigate the care of an elderly parent.
After being passed over by doctors, advocated for her health care to get a proper diagnosis and treatment.
Changed the trajectory of adult sibling dynamics to share the care of their parents.
Removed toxic law partner from the practice.
Finally felt like she learned how not to disappear or fade in the face of conflict.

Stopped assuming they must’ve done something wrong when someone was unpleasant or upset and found new ways to navigate this.

Brought constructive and civil discourse back into their university among growing “cancel culture”.
Found they could have boundaries while managing chronic illness where they are dependent on others but felt they were at their mercy.
Found and nurtured friendships with the value of reciprocity was present and honored.
Took a stand for themselves without feeling like a jerk.
Gracefully opted out of hosting all the holiday celebrations by default.
Navigated a way to keep the overbearing grandparents in their kids’ lives while no longer being overbearing

Ready to Enroll?

We think it could be transformational for you.
Theresa thought so…

“I wonder if I should start a Randi Buckley Fan Club. I’d be a good president for that.”

— Theresa Reed, The Tarot Lady

$400

TERMS AND DISCLAIMERS

Boundaries are in part, expectation management. So, it’s good to know the terms. For full terms and policies, please see our complete terms and policies page. While it’s all based on respect and integrity, I’ll highlight some of the main points:
All sales are final and we do not offer refunds. Do to the digital nature of the product, refunds would be inappropriate. Please be sure you want to purchase prior to doing so. Randi Buckley Coaching, LLC, does not offer any specific guarantees about results or outcomes of the course. That would be disrespectful to you, as you are a unique individual and results will vary based on program engagement, life circumstances, and the like, etc.… Purchase of Heal/Thy Boundaries conveys respect for the program, intellectual property, Randi’s livelihood, and a promise to not copy or try to pass any aspect of the program off as your own, to not rebrand the content, or steal the intellectual property. Lived experience requires we state this. Again, full terms and policies can be found at the link given above. If you have questions, please contact us.

"Working with Randi and learning from her has been life-changing.”

“No hyperbole here – and completely shifted my mind frame (and behaviors) regarding boundaries."

— Dr. Lilia Graue, MD, Mexico City

"Randi has given me the courage I need to say no.”

“I’ve struggled with boundaries all of my life. But after working with Randi Buckley I have learned to set and enforce them - while still maintaining my kindness. I’m forever grateful for her wise guidance.”

— Theresa Reed, The Tarot Lady

Lovely Words from Lovely Folks

“HBFKP is part of Randi’s natural medicine for the world.”

RACHEL COLE →

“Randi is patience, kindness, wisdom and love.”

SAS PETHERICK →

“Working with Randi has been transformational.”

CLAIR MAHON →

“When you meet Randi, you will crack wide open.”

ERIKA HINES →

Even more kind words this way…

Hello. My name is Randi Buckley

I’ve been coaching for 30+ years and trained as a therapist*. My undergraduate degrees are in Modern Languages, Life Sciences/Anatomy and Physiology**, and psychology. I have advanced degrees in counseling psychology and medical ethics. I am currently a doctoral student studying and researching coaching and mentoring. My coach training includes the Co-Active Institute, The Center for Right Relationship (Organizational and Relationships Systems Coaching), The Gottman Institute, and private mentorships with coaching mentors. I was studying to become a midwife when I realized that for me, that was metaphorical.

I have trained staff and/or presented at The OMEGA Institute , The Chopra Center, Green Mountain Coffee Roasters, Ben and Jerry’s, CANYON RANCH, served as an on-set coach for NBC-FRIENDS, Stanford University, UC-Riverside, and more. I am the creator of Healthy Boundaries for Kind People®, Maybe Baby®, and The Viking Woman Workshop. I am the Associate Dean of Skogfjorden, the Norwegian Language Village, where I have been for 35 years.

My clients include household names and big-brained/hearted common folk doing amazing things in the world. I hit the jackpot with parents who were not flawless, but were doing their own healing work, and raised with the mantra, do no harm, (be helpful, stand up for yourself and others) but take no shit.

* Yes, I have an understanding of trauma.
** Yes, I have an understanding of the Nervous System.

Coaching & Mentoring are my raison d'être.

The Fine Print + FAQs

I offer some scripts to get the ball rolling, sort of like training wheels. Our emphasis is on teaching you to craft and find your own words- that's really key!
I don't want you to be dependent on someone else's (or my) words but to feel confident in your own. So yes, scripts to start, and then my "Mad Libs"-inspired process to teach you to say what you mean and mean what you say... and feel good about it!
You can access Heal/Thy Boundaries for 24 months from the time of purchase.

We have found that if there are no boundaries around access, the course becomes like a book on a shelf that you fully intend to read... but never really get to it. We want you to do and use this powerful work.
Tuition is non-refundable. Please be ready to do some good, and deep, work.
I don’t do guarantees, nor are testimonials a premonition into what will happen for you.
Here's why: I encourage, and help, you apply this work and the learning to your specific needs and customize it in ways that work for you. Everyone comes to this work with different life experiences and you will need to make it your own.
Telling you exactly what will happen for you, and forcing your hand in order to meet an arbitrary guarantee, isn't how I do my work, nor how I want you to do yours.
It depends. This self-paced course is not a substitute for medical or mental health care.
If you are currently processing deep pain, memories, or trauma from boundary violations, I ask that you get professional therapeutic support.
Speak with your therapist to feel out if this course would support the work you are doing with them. Many past participants have found that to be deeply helpful... and several therapists, seeing the benefits, enrolled themselves.
If you have questions, please contact me through my “Contact” form at the top of this page. And seriously, a lot of us have been there and it can and will get better. I wish you great healing.
I’ve tried nearly every platform out there, and we’ve landed on one that I like the best is Ruzuku. It's the most underrated, consistently working, workhorse out there!
Yes! Through this work, I have discovered that many of you don't identify with being “kind.” Sometimes that's a difference in perception and sometimes that's just not how you'd label yourself, which I'm not going to ask you to do. BUT if you are someone who values kindness, compassion, and fear of confrontation, then you'll get tremendous value from this.
This course is my livelihood. Purchasing Heal/Thy Boundaries implies you respect the intellectual property and will not sell the work or claim it as your own.

Really. I have to write this based on past experience. If you have questions, please do ask!