Saturday, March 15th

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Saturday, March 15th ☆

How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Burning Bridges or Feeling Guilty

LIVE WORKSHOP

Saturday, March 15th
10 AM PDT

I almost called this "Defense Against the Dark Arts," because doesn't people-pleasing feel like a spell you can't break sometimes? But I don't believe people-pleasing itself is "bad" per se. It can, however, feel insidious.

Here's the rub when it comes to people-pleasing:
Many of us genuinely enjoy doing things for other people.

How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Burning Bridges or Feeling Guilty

People-pleasing can feel like an invisible driver of our behavior, having us regret choices even as we make them. You know what I mean? That self-disappointment in real-time. Because it feels like if you don't lean into the people-pleasing pull, you'll fall into a vat of guilt, disappointment (yours and theirs), and all those things you don't want to be accused of (selfish, entitled, etc.). Sometimes, it's purely habit, and you don't even realize you're choosing people-pleasing. But it doesn't have to be this way. Really..

We won't change a lifetime of habits in an hour, but we will get you oriented and pointed in a better direction—without all your worst fears coming true.

Grab your spot! Be my guest!
In our hour together, you'll:

  • Learn to distinguish between authentic generosity and the compulsive need to please that leaves you feeling depleted

  • Break free from automatic "yes" responses and discover why you people-please (the hidden psychological drivers)

  • Get tools to feel more ease in saying NO (or what you want to say) without guilt while still being the person you want to be in the world

  • Transform from constantly anticipating others' needs to consciously choosing when and how you want to show up

  • Replace unconscious people-pleasing habits with thoughtful decisions that honor both your needs and your relationships

Space is Limited
Enroll Now.
I mean, it’s free, after all!

Please join us if you feel called!
We'll be live, and a replay will be available for 24 hours afterward.

But don't do it for me!
People, please yourselves!
(Couldn't resist 😉). 

Answers to Your Questions

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    Can’t be there live? No worries!

    We’ll record and give you a 24 hour replay window. The recording will be sent to all who register. It’d be great if you’re there live, but are happy to you learn when you can.

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    Why are you offering this?

    This is in support the “Heal/THY Boundaries ”, my LIVE-taught, immersion beginning March 18th. I’ll mention that work, as I’m very proud and passionate about it, but this is not an infomercial. 😊

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    What’s the format?

    Expect a warm, welcoming learning space! I’m a dynamic teacher and will blending in coaching for personalization, too. There will be time for Q&A.

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    What is expected of me?

    I’ll meet you where you’re at, so no pre-work is needed. I’d love it if you were on camera, but again, I honor boundaries! So, grab some tea and listen in or be an active participant.

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Meet your guide

Randi Buckley

I’m a doctoral students and 30+ year-experienced, and multi-certified coach.


I teach, write, research, and coach healthy boundaries, and HOW people best learn them. People-pleasing is the other side of the healthy boundaries coin—an integral part of what we examine in our boundaries work and understanding the motivation behind our boundaries challenges.

Testimonials

  • “Working with Randi has been transformational. This boundaries work is one of the best things I have ever done for myself.” - Claire Mahon

  • "Randi has given me the courage I need to say no. I'd struggled with boundaries all of my life. But after working with Randi I have learned to set and enforce them. I’m forever grateful for her wise guidance. - Theresa Reed

  • "Working with Randi and learning from her has been life-changing. No hyperbole here – and completely shifted my mind frame (and behaviors) regarding boundaries. - Lilia Graue, MD

  • “Randi allowed me a gentle, safe space to grapple with a question that I didn't even know I could ask.” - Candice Cole

  • “For help on boundaries, Randi Buckley really is the best.” — Denise Duffield-Thomas

Saturday, March 15th

☆

Saturday, March 15th ☆

How to Stop People-Pleasing Without Burning Bridges or Feeling Guilty

LIVE WORKSHOP

Saturday, March 15th
10 AM PDT

Space is Limited